As a pastor and a husband of 19 years, I've seen firsthand the challenges of maintaining love in the midst of everyday life. When love becomes a daily choice, it's not always easy. The chaos of family life, work, and other responsibilities can make it difficult to prioritize love and affection. But that's exactly what's required - a conscious choice to love and prioritize our relationships.
In our household, my wife Susan and I have learned to make love a choice, even when it's hard. We've had our fair share of busy days, late nights, and stressful moments, but we've always made time for each other. We've learned to communicate effectively, to listen to each other, and to show affection in small ways throughout the day. It's not always easy, but it's worth it. Our children, Joshua and Rebecca, have grown up seeing us prioritize our love for each other, and it's taught them the importance of relationships.
As I reflect on our marriage, I realize that love is not just a feeling, but a choice we make every day. It's a choice to put each other first, to listen, to forgive, and to show affection. It's a choice to prioritize our relationship, even when it's hard. And it's a choice that requires effort, commitment, and sacrifice. But when we make love a daily choice, it becomes a source of strength, comfort, and joy in the midst of chaos.