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Your Question:
Why did my adult child steal from me and abandon me?
Answer:
My heart goes out to you as you struggle to understand why your adult child would steal from you and abandon you. I've been in similar situations before, and I've learned that often, this behavior is a cry for help, a sign that something is deeply wrong in their life. As a father and a pastor, I've come to realize that children who exhibit this kind of behavior are often trying to say that they no longer want to be a part of the family, and they're unwilling to accept the protection and care that comes with being part of a family. In situations like this, it's essential to have a clear understanding of what's going on and to communicate that clearly to the child. As the Bible says, "Reveal to me what I am sensing in this child" (Psalm 69:5). This means being willing to confront the issue head-on and to have open and honest conversations with your child. It's not about being the "bad guy" or about punishing your child, but about helping them understand the consequences of their actions and the need for them to take responsibility for their behavior. In my experience, children who steal or exhibit other forms of destructive behavior often have unaddressed issues that need to be dealt with. They may be struggling with their own sense of identity, or they may be trying to rebel against authority. Whatever the reason, it's essential to approach the situation with love, compassion, and a willingness to listen. By doing so, you can help your child understand the error of their ways and begin the process of healing and restoration.
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confronting christianity
rebecca mclaughlin
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
kingdom of cults
walter martin
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