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What do I tell my kids when I lose my job?

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When your kids leave home, it's essential to adjust your role from authority figure to guide and encourager. You're no longer in charge of telling them what to do, but you can still offer counsel, share wisdom, and provide input when they ask for it. This is a time to cheer them on and celebrate their independence, rather than trying to impose your will on them.

As you navigate this new dynamic, remember that your prayers can still have a significant impact on their lives. You may not be able to tell them what to do, but you can declare God's blessing and love over them. This is a powerful way to continue influencing their lives, even from a distance. Don't underestimate the importance of prayer in this season of their lives.

When your kids make mistakes, try to respond in a supportive way, rather than saying "I told you so." Instead, say something like, "We made some dumb decisions too, but God was with us, and He saw us through." This helps them learn from their mistakes without feeling judged or criticized. By being a source of encouragement and support, you can help your adult children grow into the people God wants them to be.

Sources:

raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
sacred marriage
gary thomas
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini

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