Biblical Answer

How many times should I forgive someone?

Jesus aside and asked, How often shall my brother sin against me and I forgive him? Up to seven times? (nasb). In other words, When is enough, enough? How many times do I have to forgive? When is it all right not to forgive?

Jesus replied, Not seven times, but seventy-seven times (Matthew 18:21-22). He taught his followers that forgiveness is not limited by a number. Jesus emphasized that forgiveness is a choice we make, and it is not based on what feels good at the moment, but on what God has asked us to do.

The question of how many times to forgive someone is often asked, but Jesus' answer suggests that forgiveness is not about keeping track of offenses. Forgiveness is a process, not an event. It is about letting go of bitterness and resentment, and choosing to trust God's justice. When we forgive, we are not saying that the other person's actions are justified, but rather that we are choosing to release the hurt and anger we feel. This is a choice we make, and it is one that requires effort and commitment. Answer: Forgiveness is not limited by a number; it is a choice we make to release the hurt and anger we feel, trusting God's justice.