Biblical Answer

Understanding the Struggle

Marriage is a long walk, and it can be tough. We all go through struggles, and marriage is no exception. The question is, how do we keep our marriage strong when our business (or life) is failing? The answer lies in how we respond to our struggles. We can either run from them or face them head-on. Running from our struggles can lead to a breakdown in our marriage. This is because one or both partners are running from their own weaknesses as much as they are running from something they can't tolerate in their spouse.

Embracing the Struggle

We should not run from the struggles of marriage. Instead, we should embrace them and grow in them. Draw nearer to God because of them. When we face our struggles, we have the opportunity for unparalleled spiritual growth. We can start to root out our self-centeredness and develop ourselves in our marriage. This is not easy, and it takes time. But it is worth it. When both spouses are willing to work on themselves, the end result can be a marvelous marriage. However, if one spouse is not willing to work on themselves, it can be a recipe for disaster.

Working Together

The key to a strong marriage is not just about individual growth, but also about how we work together as a team. We should not let our spouse trample all over us, but rather, we should negotiate and work together to address our issues. If we are willing to put in the time and effort, we can salvage a struggling marriage and make it work. It takes a huge investment of time, but it is worth it. We should not blame our spouse for lack of fulfillment, but rather, we should look to God for the love and active presence we need in our lives. When we do this, we can find satisfaction and joy in our marriage, even in the midst of struggles. Ask yourself, "Do I want my marriage to work, and am I willing to do whatever it takes to make it happen?" If the answer is yes, then you are on the right track. If the answer is no, then you need to re-evaluate your priorities and make a commitment to work on your marriage. Remember, marriage is a long walk, but it can be a beautiful journey if we are willing to face our struggles and work together as a team. Don't give up on your marriage, even when it's tough. Instead, get down on your knees and thank God that he has given you an opportunity for unparalled spiritual growth. You have the potential to excel in your marriage, and with God's help, you can make it work. So, don't run from the struggles of marriage. Embrace them, grow in them, and draw nearer to God because of them. This is the key to a strong and healthy marriage.