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Your Question:
What's the right thing to do when you're forced to choose between your family and your own well-being?
Answer:
As I reflect on the importance of family, I've come to realize that when faced with a choice between family and personal well-being, I must consider what's best for the collective unit. In marriage, my wife and I have committed to becoming a new decision-making unit, working together to create patterns and ways of doing things that fit both of us. This means considering the needs of our family, including our children, Joshua and Rebecca, and prioritizing their well-being alongside my own. It's easy to get caught up in our own desires and expectations, but as a husband and father, I've learned that I must put the needs of my family first. This doesn't mean sacrificing my own well-being entirely, but rather, being willing to make sacrifices for the greater good. In times of difficulty, I've found that prayer has been a powerful tool in navigating family relationships and seeking guidance. By covering my family in prayer, I've been able to avoid strained or severed relationships and foster a deeper sense of unity and love. Ultimately, when faced with a choice between family and personal well-being, I must trust in God's plan and guidance. As the Bible teaches, "God make your choice for you." In times of testing, it's easy to prioritize my own welfare, but as a person of faith, I've learned to joyfully waive my right and allow God to make my choice for me. By doing so, I've come to understand that my limitations and desires are not solely my own, but rather, they are influenced by my relationship with God and my commitment to my family.
Sources:
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
sacred marriage
gary thomas
the war on children
john macarthur
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
old testament theology
waltke
my utmost for his highest
oswald chambers
christian theology
millard erickson
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