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Your Question:
Can I still be a good friend if I'm going through a tough time?
Answer:
As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with the idea of being a good friend when they're going through a tough time. But I believe that's when true friendship is most important. According to Proverbs 27:17, real friends always let you in and never let you down. They're constant and transparent, and they show sympathy and understanding. When we're struggling, it's easy to become a fair-weather friend, only trusting God during the good times and becoming suspicious in the hard times. But a good friend is someone who welcomes both pleasure and affliction, like St. Basil. They're not passive or comfortable with their depression, but instead, they choose to engage with God and seek change. As someone who's walked with many people through difficult times, I can attest that being a good friend means being present, listening, and showing empathy. It's not about pretending to be someone you're not or putting on a friendly manner, but about being genuine and authentic. So, yes, you can still be a good friend even when you're going through a tough time. In fact, that's when you need good friends the most.
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