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Your Question:

Why did my child have to go through this?

Answer:

I can relate to the struggles you're facing as a parent. As a pastor and a father of two teenagers, I've seen firsthand the challenges that come with raising children. My 17-year-old son, Joshua, and 14-year-old daughter, Rebecca, are at an age where they're testing boundaries and developing their own identities. It's not uncommon for them to push back against authority or refuse to comply with rules.

In our household, we've learned to approach these situations with empathy and understanding. We recognize that our children are often struggling with their own emotions and insecurities, and that their behavior may be a cry for help or a reflection of their own fears and doubts. Rather than reacting impulsively or punishing them for their actions, we take the time to listen to their concerns and address the underlying issues. This approach has helped us build stronger relationships with our children and has given them the confidence to make better choices.

As a parent, it's essential to remember that you're not just teaching your child right from wrong, but also modeling behavior and values that will shape their character and decision-making skills. By being present, supportive, and consistent, you can help your child develop the resilience and courage they need to navigate life's challenges. And when they do make mistakes, it's crucial to address the issue in a way that teaches them accountability, responsibility, and forgiveness – not just for their actions, but also for their relationships with others.

Sources:

addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
confronting christianity
rebecca mclaughlin
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini

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