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Your Question:

How do I tell my family I can't pay the bills?

Answer:

The weight of responsibility. I've been in your shoes before, my friend. When Susan and I were first married, we had to have some tough conversations about finances. I remember it like it was yesterday. We sat down together, made a budget, and stuck to it. I preached to our kids about the importance of living within their means, just like we did. Now, Joshua and Rebecca are grown, and they're making their own financial decisions. But I know how hard it can be to have these conversations.

When Joshua and Rebecca were younger, we'd have family meetings to discuss our finances. I'd explain to them why paying bills on time is crucial, and how credit and debit card offers can be a trap. I'd share with them the biblical principles of stewardship, like giving generously and living modestly. I'd also teach them how to make a budget and stick to it. Now, as adults, they know the importance of financial responsibility. But I'm sure they're not immune to the temptation of overspending or accumulating debt.

If you're struggling to pay the bills, I encourage you to be honest with your family. Explain your situation, and work together to find a solution. Make a budget, prioritize your expenses, and communicate openly with each other. Remember, it's not about being perfect; it's about being responsible and taking care of each other. As a pastor, I've seen many families struggle with financial stress, but with open communication and a commitment to financial responsibility, you can overcome any obstacle.

Sources:

raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
meaning of marriage
timothy keller

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