How do I explain this to my kids when I'm struggling to make ends meet?

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As a father and a pastor, I've learned that it's essential to be honest with your kids when you're struggling to make ends meet. It's not about hiding the truth or making excuses, but about teaching them valuable lessons about money management, responsibility, and trust in God. When we ran out of money during a construction project, my wife Susan and I had to explain to our kids that sometimes, even with hard work and planning, things don't go as expected.

But here's the thing: it's not about how much time you have, but about how you use it. As Phil said, "You can be loving your child by working extra hard so he can have all that he needs while your son or daughter is interpreting your busy-ness as disinterest." We need to teach our kids that everything we have comes from God, and that we're stewarding what belongs to Him. By doing so, we can help them develop an attitude of gratitude and a sense of responsibility.

As a parent, it's also crucial to set boundaries and teach our kids the importance of hard work and financial responsibility. By doing age-appropriate chores and paying them for established tasks, we can help them develop a sense of pride and accomplishment. We should also teach them to give joyfully to God, starting with the first part of their earnings. By doing so, we can help them understand the value of money and the importance of trusting God with their finances.

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