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Your Question:
How do I forgive my child?
Answer:
Forgiving my child is a crucial step in healing our relationship when I've blown it. The first step is to ask their forgiveness, which shows them that I'm willing to take responsibility for my actions. I need to name what I did wrong, identify how my words or actions hurt my child, and explain how badly I handled the situation. This helps my child see that I understand the impact of my behavior and am truly sorry. It's also essential to tell my child that they are not defined by the negative label I may have placed upon them. I need to replace that memory with a positive one, using words that edify and uplift my child. For example, if I was harsh in my tone when I was angry, I need to apologize for that and reassure my child that they are loved and valued, regardless of my mistakes. By doing so, I'm demonstrating to my child that I'm committed to growing and changing, just like Jesus is changing and growing me. As a parent, it's not just about asking my child for forgiveness; I also need to teach them the importance of forgiveness. I should encourage them to forgive not only me but also others who may have hurt them. By modeling forgiveness and teaching my child the value of mercy and forgiveness, I'm helping them develop a heart that is quick to forgive and a spirit that is free from bitterness and anger. This is an essential part of our relationship and our spiritual growth as a family.
Sources:
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
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