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Your Question:
What's the best way to show love to those around us when we're feeling stuck?
Answer:
When we're feeling stuck, it's crucial to recognize that our natural affection may not be enough to sustain a loving relationship. As someone who has been married for 19 years, I can attest to the importance of making a conscious effort to show love to those around us, even when it's not reciprocated. This is especially true in a marriage, where the initial passion and excitement may wear off over time. In such situations, it's essential to focus on actions of love, rather than relying solely on feelings. This can be as simple as planning walks, sitting together by a fireplace, or arranging picnics. I've found that even small gestures, like making an effort to look presentable for my wife, can go a long way in showing love and affection. Additionally, verbal expressions of love, such as telling my wife how much I appreciate her, can help create an affectionate climate in our relationship. Ultimately, loving someone when we're feeling stuck requires commitment and a willingness to serve and act in love, even when it's not easy. As I've learned from my own experiences, this type of love can lead to feelings of affection and appreciation over time. It's not about trying to recreate the initial infatuation, but rather about cultivating a deeper, more mature love that is rooted in commitment and service.
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depression
edward welch
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
biblical critical theory
christopher watkin
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
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