Biblical Answer

The Illusion of Strength

It's possible that you may be pretending to be strong when, in reality, you're falling apart. This can be a common phenomenon, especially when we're trying to put on a brave face or hide our struggles from others. However, this facade of strength can be a hindrance to true growth and healing. As the Bible says, "My strength is made perfect in weakness" (2 Corinthians 12:9). This means that our strength comes not from our own abilities or self-reliance, but from God's power and presence in our lives.

The Strain of True Strength

True strength is not about pretending to be okay when we're not. It's about being honest with ourselves and others about our struggles and weaknesses. When we face our struggles head-on and acknowledge our need for help, that's when we can experience true strength. As the Bible says, "The Lord will give strength to His people; the Lord will bless His people with peace" (Psalm 29:11). This strength and peace come from a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and a willingness to surrender our lives to Him. When we do, we can experience the strength and peace that we need to overcome our struggles and live a life that reflects God's love and character.

Getting Down on Our Knees

If you find yourself pretending to be strong when you're really falling apart, it's time to get down on your knees and confess your sins and ask Jesus Christ to pull the arrows out (Psalm 38:11). This means acknowledging your weaknesses and struggles, and asking God to give you the strength and resources you need to overcome them. As the Bible says, "Cast your cares on the Lord and He will sustain you; He will never let the righteous be shaken" (Psalm 55:22). When we cast our cares on God and trust in His strength and presence, we can experience true healing and growth. So, don't be afraid to get down on your knees and ask for help. It's the first step towards experiencing true strength and living a life that reflects God's love and character.