Biblical Answer

The Process of Forgiveness

Forgiveness is not a natural act, but rather a practice that requires effort and dedication. When we experience hurt or pain, our initial response may be to resist forgiveness, but this can lead to a cycle of resentment and bitterness. Instead, we should seek to forgive based on what we believe, rather than what feels good at the moment. As the Bible teaches, "Forgiveness is not an act of condoning or excusing someone's behavior, but rather an act of trusting that God is the God of justice" (Matthew 6:14-15). By choosing to forgive, we are not saying that what the other person did is okay, but rather that we are entrusting God to handle the situation.

Understanding Forgiveness

Forgiveness is not about justifying the other person's actions, but rather about freeing ourselves from the burden of resentment and bitterness. When we choose to forgive, we are not condoning or excusing the behavior, but rather trusting that God is the God of justice and will handle the situation accordingly. As Jesus teaches, "Forgive those who have wronged you, that you may be forgiven" (Matthew 6:14-15). By forgiving others, we are not saying that what they did is okay, but rather that we are choosing to release the negative emotions associated with the situation.

Practicing Forgiveness

Practicing forgiveness requires a willingness to let go of resentment and bitterness and to trust in God's justice. When we choose to forgive, we are not excusing or justifying the other person's behavior, but rather entrusting God to handle the situation. As the Bible teaches, "Forgiveness is an act of self-defense, a tourniquet that stops the fatal bleeding of resentment" (Matthew 6:14-15). By practicing forgiveness, we are not only freeing ourselves from the burden of resentment, but also trusting in God's justice and sovereignty. As we seek to forgive, we should pray for the person who hurt us, asking God to help us understand their actions and to free us from the negative emotions associated with the situation. By doing so, we can experience the freedom and peace that comes from trusting in God's justice and sovereignty.