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Your Question:
What's the best way to forgive myself?
Answer:
The weight of guilt can be crushing, my friend. I've seen it in my own life, and I've seen it in the lives of those I've counseled at the church. It's as if we think we're the only ones who bear the burden of our mistakes. But the truth is, we're not alone. We're offered forgiveness on any terms, and it's made clear that if we don't forgive, it'll be hard enough as it is. But with God's help, it can be easier. When I think about forgiving myself, I think about the example of Christ. He took the judgment of our sin upon himself, and that frees us to look seriously at our own hearts. It's not about pretending our mistakes didn't happen or that we're perfect. It's about acknowledging our flaws and seeking forgiveness. As the psalmist says, "If I, an Old Testament psalmist who hasn't seen the coming of Jesus, can speak with this kind of hope, how much more can you, who have witnessed the cross... the unmistakable evidence of forgiveness of sins?" We have the gift of the Holy Spirit, and our sanctification is a result of that gift. Forgiveness is a divine miracle of grace, and it cost the agony at Calvary. We should never take the forgiveness of sin lightly. When I apologize to Susan or Joshua or Rebecca, I'm reminded of the cost of forgiveness. It's not about me; it's about the sacrifice that Christ made for us. So, to forgive ourselves, we need to remember that we're not alone in our mistakes. We're part of a larger story, and God is rewriting our narrative with forgiveness and mercy.
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