Biblical Answer

Can our words bring new life to our relationships when we're struggling?

Yes, our words can bring new life to our relationships when we're struggling. The Bible teaches us that speech that builds up comes from a godly heart and a transformed character (Proverbs 25:1-27:7). When we speak in a way that is loving, kind, and gentle, it can help to restore and strengthen our relationships. This is especially true in relationships that have been damaged by pain, indifference, and selfishness.

When we choose to use our words to build up and support each other, we can help to create a positive and loving environment in our relationships. This requires us to be selfless and to become more connected with each other. We need to remember that our spouse is called, just as we are, and we need to be interested enough in their call to know what it is that brings them joy and fulfillment. By doing so, we can create a space where our words can bring new life and restoration to our relationships.

The Bible also teaches us that our words have the power to heal and restore relationships. In Ephesians 2:11-18, we are reminded that we are no longer strangers and aliens, but are now members of God's family, united through Jesus Christ. This means that we have the power to create a new and loving relationship with each other, even in the midst of struggle and conflict. By choosing to use our words to build up and support each other, we can bring new life and restoration to our relationships, and create a space where love, joy, and peace can flourish.