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Teaching Children the Importance of Forgiveness and Reconciliation

As parents, we have a significant role in teaching our children the importance of forgiveness and reconciliation. One way to do this is by modeling forgiveness ourselves and encouraging our children to do the same. When our children make mistakes, we should teach them to ask for forgiveness from the person they have hurt and from God as well. This teaches them to take responsibility for their actions and to prioritize relationships over their own pride or self-interest. We can also share Scripture with them, such as Matthew 6:14-15, which emphasizes the importance of forgiving others in order to experience forgiveness from God.

Another way to teach our children about forgiveness and reconciliation is by praying for them to develop this trait. We can pray that God would enable our children to live in ongoing forgiveness, teaching them the depth of God's forgiveness toward them so that they can be freely forgiving toward others. We can also pray that God would help our children to make the decision to forgive, even when it's hard or uncomfortable. If our children have already failed in this area, it's never too late for them to confess and repent, and be forgiven, healed, and made new.

In addition to modeling and praying, we can also teach our children about the consequences of not forgiving. We can explain that holding onto unforgiveness can lead to bitterness, resentment, and even spiritual bondage. On the other hand, practicing forgiveness and reconciliation can lead to freedom, deliverance, and restoration. By teaching our children the importance of forgiveness and reconciliation, we can help them develop into people who are others-centered, compassionate, and merciful. We can also model for them the safety and security of a loving relationship, where apologies are made and mercy is shown with an extravagance that is hard to ignore. By doing so, we can help our children develop into people who are capable of living in ongoing forgiveness and reconciliation.