Biblical Answer

Recovering from Past Sexual Mistakes

Recovering from past sexual mistakes is a difficult and painful process, but it is not impossible. The Bible teaches us that we are forgiven and set free from our past mistakes when we repent and seek forgiveness from God (1 John 1:9). However, the consequences of our actions may still linger, and we may need to work through the pain and shame associated with our past.

To begin the process of recovery, it is essential to acknowledge and confront the harm and shame associated with our past experiences. This may involve seeking counseling, talking to a trusted friend or family member, or praying for healing and forgiveness. As Kathy and I emphasize, it is never too late to pray for sexual purity, no matter what has occurred in either of our pasts (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). We must also recognize that our past mistakes do not define us, and we are not alone in our struggles. The Bible reminds us that we are forgiven and set free from our past mistakes, and that we are new creations in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17).

In addition to seeking forgiveness and healing, it is also essential to take responsibility for our actions and to work towards rebuilding our relationships with others. This may involve being open and honest with our partners about our past experiences, and seeking their forgiveness and understanding. As the Bible teaches, we are to love our neighbors as ourselves, and to seek to do no harm to others (Matthew 22:39-40). By taking responsibility for our actions and seeking forgiveness and healing, we can begin to rebuild our lives and move forward in a positive direction. Ultimately, our goal is to live a life that reflects the character of Christ, and to seek to honor Him in all that we do (2 Corinthians 5:9).