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Your Question:
How do I tell my kids this is happening?
Answer:
As a father of two teenagers, I've learned that it's essential to approach conversations with empathy and understanding. When dealing with challenging situations, it's crucial to come alongside your child to help, comfort, and bring courage. This means being present, listening actively, and speaking words of encouragement. By doing so, you help your child feel heard and understood, which is vital in building trust and a strong relationship. When discussing sensitive topics or addressing undesired behavior, it's best to have a private conversation, free from public shame. A warning ignored should be followed by action, not more empty warnings. It's also essential to use open-ended questions to understand the motive behind the behavior, and to reassure your child that they are still loved and valued. By doing so, you create a safe space for them to open up and share their thoughts and feelings. As a parent, it's also crucial to model the behavior you want to see in your child. This means being mutually responsive, listening actively, and remaining calm in challenging situations. By doing so, you show your child that you value and respect them, which helps build trust and a strong relationship. As a pastor, I've seen firsthand the impact that loving and supportive relationships can have on a child's life, and I always strive to be a source of comfort, guidance, and encouragement for my own children, Joshua and Rebecca.
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raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
depression
edward welch
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
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