Biblical Answer

The Dangers of Prioritizing Ourselves

When we prioritize ourselves over others in a world of hurt, we miss out on the opportunity to truly connect with others and find healing. Self-dependent individuals may feel like they are in control, but they are actually worse off because they are unable to truly understand and empathize with others. This self-centeredness can lead to a culture of entitlement, where we expect others to cater to our needs and desires, rather than being willing to put others first.

The Importance of Empathy and Compassion

On the other hand, when we prioritize others over ourselves, we are able to develop a deeper understanding and compassion for those around us. We are able to see the pain and hurt in others and respond in a way that brings comfort and healing. This is not to say that we should ignore our own needs and desires, but rather that we should be willing to put others first and seek to understand their perspectives. As Jesus teaches us, we should be willing to "hurt with" those who are hurting, rather than trying to fix their problems or rescue them.

Finding Healing and Hope

In a world of hurt, it is easy to get caught up in our own pain and suffering. However, when we prioritize others over ourselves, we are able to find healing and hope in the midst of our struggles. By putting others first and seeking to understand their pain, we are able to develop a deeper sense of empathy and compassion. And in Jesus, we find the one person who knows all our heartache and all our pain, and is able to take it away. As we prioritize others over ourselves, we are able to find healing and hope, not just for ourselves, but for those around us as well. By living a life that prioritizes others, we are able to reflect the love and compassion of God to a world that desperately needs it.