Biblical Answer

How am I going to take care of my kids?

Taking care of your kids is a significant responsibility, but with God's guidance and wisdom, you can build a strong foundation for their lives. According to Ephesians 3:19, we are to "know the love that surpasses knowledge" of God, and when we do, we can give our kids a great gift. This gift is not just a material thing but a spiritual one - the knowledge that their parents love each other and will never leave each other. This foundation of love and commitment will stand strong, and your children will thrive.

To take care of your kids, you need to start with Jesus as the cornerstone (Ephesians 2:20). Ask Him for wisdom, and pray for boldness to be a dependable and loving parent. As you do this, you will see God fathering your children in the decades ahead. This is why it's essential to prioritize time with your kids, even in the midst of busy schedules. Take a walk every morning and pray out loud for each of your kids, their spouses, and your grandkids. This will help you stay connected with them and guide them through life's challenges.

As your children grow and eventually leave home, your role as a parent changes. However, your responsibility to pray for them continues. Use the four tools of loving words, good food, friendly banter, and laughter to train your kids to instinctively run to the Word for comfort from the Spirit. Write loving notes, have family meals, and engage in conversations that nourish their souls. By doing so, you will build a strong foundation of love and trust that will help your kids navigate life's challenges and become compassionate, wise, and strong individuals.