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Your Question:
What did I do wrong?
Answer:
I think I see where you went wrong. It seems like you made a promise to your wife, Kathy, to cut back on your work hours, but you didn't follow through on that promise. You kept saying "just a couple more months" for three years, and that's not what you promised. That's not being honest or reliable, and it's likely caused a lot of stress and frustration for Kathy. As a pastor, I've seen this kind of situation before, and it's not a good place to be. You're feeling stuck and unsure of what to do, but the truth is, you need to take responsibility for your actions and make things right with Kathy. That might mean having a hard conversation with her and being honest about your intentions and your mistakes. It's not about being silent and submissive, but about being humble and willing to listen and work through the issues together. In terms of what to do next, I would encourage you to have an open and honest conversation with Kathy about what's going on and how you can work together to find a solution. It's okay to make mistakes and ask for forgiveness, but it's not okay to keep making the same mistakes over and over again. As for divorce, that's a serious decision that should only be considered after all other options have been exhausted. But first, you need to take responsibility for your actions and work on rebuilding trust with Kathy.
Sources:
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
kingdom of the occult
walter martin
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