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How do I tell my kids about their mom's illness?

Answer:

As a pastor and a father, I've learned that when it comes to sharing difficult news with children, honesty and sensitivity are key. When my kids ask about serious issues, such as a parent's illness, I try to be straightforward and reassuring. I'll explain the situation in a way that they can understand, and I'll let them know that we're all in this together as a family.

It's also essential to listen to their questions and concerns, even if they seem insignificant. By doing so, we can build trust and create a safe space for them to open up about their feelings. As I've learned from my own experience, sometimes children may not be asking directly about the issue at hand, but rather seeking reassurance or guidance. By being present and attentive, we can help them feel more secure and supported.

When Susan, my wife, was dealing with her own health issues, I made sure to be open and honest with our children, Joshua and Rebecca. I let them know that we were all in this together and that we would face it as a family. I encouraged them to ask questions and express their feelings, and I made sure to listen attentively to their concerns. By doing so, we were able to navigate this challenging time together, and our children grew stronger and more resilient as a result.

Sources:

power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
the war on children
john macarthur
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer

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