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How do we choose between love and sacrifice in the midst of chaos?

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As a pastor, I've seen many couples struggle with the balance between love and sacrifice in their relationships. The Bible teaches us that true love is sacrificial, and that's a hard pill to swallow at times. When we choose to sacrifice our own desires and needs for the benefit of our loved ones, it's not always easy. But it's in those moments of sacrifice that we demonstrate our true love for them.

As a parent, I've had to make sacrifices for my children, Joshua and Rebecca, countless times. Whether it's putting their needs before my own or giving up my time and energy to support them, I've learned that sacrifice is an essential part of loving them well. It's not about being a martyr or seeking to control them, but about serving and giving to them. When we sacrifice for our children, we show them that we love them unconditionally, and that's a powerful lesson for them to learn.

But sacrifice isn't just about giving up things we want; it's also about giving up our own desires and expectations. As a husband, I've had to learn to put Susan's needs before my own, even when it's hard. And as a pastor, I've seen many couples struggle with the idea of sacrifice in their relationships. The Bible teaches us that true love is not just about feeling emotions, but about acting in ways that demonstrate our commitment to one another. When we choose to sacrifice for the benefit of others, we're not just showing them love; we're also showing them God's love, which is the ultimate expression of sacrifice.

Sources:

introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
the war on children
john macarthur
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
my utmost for his highest
oswald chambers
1 corinthians
thomas schreiner
depression
edward welch
job
francis andersen

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