Biblical Answer

When your children grow up and leave home, it can be a challenging and emotional experience for parents. As they prepare to launch into adulthood, it's essential to remember that they will make their own choices and decisions, and you may not always agree with them. In the years since I first wrote this book, my children have left home for college, come back, and left home again, and I've seen them grow up and become independent. I've come to realize that it's not about attaining or surpassing my own achievements, but about giving them the skills and values they need to succeed.

As they prepare to leave home, it's crucial to have open and honest conversations with them about their goals, aspirations, and expectations. Help them make a conscious choice about the lifestyle they wish to live and how much it will cost. Before choosing a college major or a career, make sure they are realistic about financial responsibilities and consequences. It's also essential to teach them the value of hard work, integrity, and responsibility, and to encourage them to develop these skills. By doing so, you'll be giving them the tools they need to succeed in life, even when you're not there to see them graduate.

In the end, it's not about being there to see your children graduate or achieving a specific outcome, but about being a loving and supportive parent who has equipped them with the skills and values they need to succeed. As you prepare to launch your children into adulthood, remember to be patient, understanding, and supportive. Don't overcorrect or burden them with your own ambitions and pride. Instead, focus on helping them develop into capable and confident individuals who can make their own decisions and live their own lives. By doing so, you'll be giving them the greatest gift of all: the freedom to succeed and thrive on their own.