When facing the end of life, it is essential to be honest with your children about your condition and your love for them. Remind them of God's love and the hope of eternal life through Jesus Christ. Here are some specific things you can say to your kids when you're dying:
1."You are my child, and I will always love you. I love you no matter what, and that will never change." This statement reassures your child of your love and commitment to them, even in the face of death.
2."I am at peace because I know Jesus loves me, and I have accepted His gift of eternal life." This statement shares your faith and hope with your child, giving them a sense of comfort and peace.
3."God's love for you is greater than my love for you. He loves you so much that He sent His Son, Jesus, to die for you so that you might have eternal life." This statement reminds your child of God's love and the sacrifice Jesus made for them.
4."I want you to know that I will always be with you in spirit, and I will be watching over you from heaven." This statement provides a sense of comfort and security for your child, knowing that you will always be with them in spirit.
5."I want you to continue to follow Jesus and trust in His love and goodness, even when things are hard." This statement encourages your child to continue on their spiritual journey and to trust in God's love and goodness.
6."I love you more than words can say, and I am so proud of the person you have become." This statement expresses your love and pride in your child, and it reminds them of your commitment to them.
7."You are not alone; God is always with you, and He will guide you through the tough times." This statement reminds your child that they are not alone and that God is always with them, guiding and directing them.
8."I want you to remember the happy times we had together, and I want you to hold onto those memories." This statement encourages your child to remember the happy times and to hold onto those memories, giving them a sense of comfort and joy.
9."I want you to know that I forgive you for anything you may have done that hurt me, and I want you to forgive me too." This statement provides a sense of closure and forgiveness, and it encourages your child to forgive you as well.
10."I want you to know that I love you, and I will always love you, no matter what." This statement reassures your child of your love and commitment to them, even in the face of death.
When sharing these statements with your children, be sure to speak from your heart and to be sincere. Let them know that you love them and that you are proud of them. Remind them of God's love and the hope of eternal life through Jesus Christ. This will give them a sense of comfort and peace, and it will help them to understand the love and sacrifice that you are making for them.
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