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Your Question:
What's the difference between feeling sorry for myself and being honest about my struggles?
Answer:
As I reflect on my own life, I've come to realize that there's a fine line between feeling sorry for myself and being honest about my struggles. Feeling sorry for myself is like carrying the weight of unmet expectations and standards on my shoulders. It's as if I'm pointing the finger at myself, saying, "You haven't measured up." But when I'm being honest about my struggles, I'm acknowledging that I'm not perfect and that I've made mistakes. It's a difference of perspective, really. For me, feeling sorry for myself often stems from pride. I get caught up in my own self-pity, grieving that others don't see me as the great person I am. But that's not humility; that's just self-aggrandizement. When I'm honest about my struggles, I'm not trying to boost my self-esteem or make excuses for myself. I'm simply acknowledging my weaknesses and seeking to grow as a person. As a pastor, I've seen this same phenomenon in others. We get so caught up in our own pride that we forget to trust in God and love others. As a Christian, I believe that my purpose is to trust in God and love others. When I'm not doing that, I'm disconnected from my purpose, and hopelessness thrives. Feeling sorry for myself is not about being honest about my struggles; it's about wallowing in self-pity and pride. Being honest about my struggles, on the other hand, is about acknowledging my weaknesses and seeking to grow in faith and love. It's a mindset shift, really – from self-centeredness to God-centeredness.
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depression
edward welch
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
sacred marriage
gary thomas
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
practicing the way
john mark comer
on guard
william lane craig
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
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