Biblical Answer

To model a healthy understanding of biblical authority and submission in front of your children, start by making sure your children hear the Bible being read and discussed in your home. Bring your Bibles with you every Sunday to church so your children understand the value of Scripture. Make sure your children hear you rely on Scripture and the Holy Spirit to lead you in decision-making and problem-solving. This will help them grow to trust your discernment and learn from your example.

Another way to model a healthy understanding of biblical authority and submission is to use open-ended questions to get your children thinking about biblical truth. Ask them how they think they might've contributed to a disagreement or problem, and explain to them that God says we are to take the obstacle out of our own eyes before we instruct others (Matthew 7:3-5). This will help them develop a deeper understanding of biblical principles and learn to apply them in their own lives.

Finally, make sure your children see you modeling a God-centered way of living life. This means being respectful, honest, and loving, and teaching your children to do the same. As you raise your children in the ways of the Lord, make sure they learn solid biblical doctrine and understand the importance of submitting to God's authority. By doing so, you will be helping your children develop a healthy understanding of biblical authority and submission that will serve them well throughout their lives. As you do this, pray that the Lord will engrave His words on your children's hearts (Psalm 119:11). This is an education that is theocentric, or centered on God, and it is an education that will have a lasting impact on your children's lives.