Biblical Answer

Can I Still Have a Sense of Control Over My Life?

In the context of living a life that reflects Christian values and teachings, it is essential to understand that we are not in control of our spiritual formation. This is a challenging lesson for followers of Jesus today. However, it is crucial to recognize that self-control is not about controlling our spiritual lives but about intentionally designing our lives to give Jesus free rein over our formation. When we do this, a whole new level of joy becomes available.

Self-control is a strategic countermeasure to the insatiable cravings of sin. It involves mastering our own impulses and emotions, willfulness, tongue, behavior, and moods through the power of the Spirit within us. This is not about self-dependence, relying on personal willpower to control ourselves, but rather a gift of the Holy Spirit, given through faith in Jesus Christ. Self-control is not about emotional flatness or indifference but about channeling our energies towards God's purposes.

In reality, self-control is about recognizing that we are not in control and surrendering to God's sovereignty. It is about acknowledging that our cravings for control can lead us away from God's will. When we surrender to God's control, we can experience a sense of liberation and joy. As the Bible says, "The Lord knows how to rescue the godly from temptation" (2 Pet 2:9). By relying on God's grace, we can develop self-control, which is a skill that can be learned and practiced over time. Ultimately, self-control is not about controlling our lives but about surrendering to God's control and allowing Him to guide us towards His purposes.