Biblical Answer

Happiness in Life: Can You Afford to be Happy?

The Nature of Happiness

Happiness is a universal desire, often regarded as the greatest goal in life. However, the Bible cautions us that our pursuit of happiness can be misguided. In 1 Corinthians 6:20, it is written that we do not belong to ourselves, but were bought at a price. This understanding can profoundly impact our perception of happiness. If we recognize that our true ownership and purpose are tied to our relationship with God, our understanding of happiness may shift from a focus on external means to a deeper, more profound sense of fulfillment.

The Risks of External Happiness

The desire for happiness can lead us down a path of external means, such as wealth, material possessions, and even relationships. However, these sources of happiness are often fleeting and can even lead to despair. As the Bible reminds us, "You may be quite satisfied with the kinds of happiness money can give and so fail to realise your need for God" (Mere Christianity). Moreover, depression often accompanies a desire for something while simultaneously fearing its attainment. Satisfying the desire may not necessarily alleviate the underlying ache and despair. This highlights the importance of seeking happiness in a deeper, more meaningful way.

Finding Happiness in God

In contrast, finding happiness in God offers a more sustainable and fulfilling solution. When we understand that our true purpose and value come from our relationship with God, we can experience a deeper sense of happiness and fulfillment. This is not to say that we will never face challenges or difficulties, but rather that our sense of happiness will be grounded in a more stable and enduring foundation. As the Bible encourages us, "Pray for God to show you what steps to take and then enable you to take them" (Mere Christianity). By seeking God's guidance and wisdom, we can discover a more profound and lasting happiness that is not dependent on external means. In doing so, we can experience a sense of happiness that is not just a fleeting feeling, but a deep and abiding joy that brings purpose and hope to our lives.