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how do i explain this to my kids when they're already struggling?

Answer:

As a father of two teenagers, I can relate to the struggles they face. When explaining this to my kids, Joshua and Rebecca, I would start by acknowledging their feelings and validating their emotions. I'd let them know that it's okay to struggle and that it's a normal part of growing up. I'd explain that I'm not trying to take away their independence, but rather, I'm teaching them valuable life skills that will help them become responsible and resilient adults.

I'd use examples from our own lives, like when I was a teenager and made mistakes, but learned from them. I'd also remind them that I'm not perfect and that I've made mistakes too. By sharing my own experiences, I hope to show them that it's okay to stumble and that we can learn from our mistakes together. I'd encourage them to take ownership of their actions and decisions, and to think critically about how to solve problems on their own.

As a pastor, I've seen many young people struggle with similar issues. I believe that by teaching our children to persevere and work through their feelings, we're giving them the tools they need to become successful and confident adults. I'd remind Joshua and Rebecca that I'm here to support and guide them, but ultimately, it's up to them to learn and grow from their experiences. By doing so, I hope to help them develop a strong sense of self and a growth mindset that will serve them well throughout their lives.

Sources:

raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer

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