Biblical Answer

When a family member betrays you, it can be a painful and difficult experience. As a Christian, you may feel like you're supposed to forgive and forget, but it's not always easy. The Bible teaches us to forgive, but it also acknowledges that forgiveness doesn't always come easily (Matthew 6:14-15). In fact, Jesus taught that we should forgive others even if they don't ask for it, and even if they continue to hurt us (Luke 6:27-36).

When dealing with a family member who has betrayed you, it's essential to seek guidance from God's Word and from wise counsel. The Bible teaches us to pray for those who have wronged us, and to seek reconciliation when possible (Matthew 5:23-24). It's also important to remember that our family members are not our enemies, but rather our brothers and sisters in Christ (Matthew 5:44). We should pray for them, love them, and seek to restore relationships whenever possible. If you're struggling to forgive, seek out a trusted friend or family member who can offer wise counsel, or consider attending an Al-Anon meeting for support.

In addition to seeking guidance and support, it's also essential to examine your own heart and motivations. When we feel like it's our fault, it can be a sign of pride or a lack of trust in God's sovereignty. As the Bible teaches, "God causes all things to work together for good to those who love Him" (Romans 8:28). This means that even in difficult situations, God is working for our good. By seeking to understand God's perspective and purpose, we can begin to release our guilt and shame, and trust in His goodness. As you navigate this difficult time, remember that God is with you, and He is working to bring about good even in the midst of betrayal and pain. (Psalm 23:4)