Biblical Answer

Overcoming Struggles in Marriage: A Path to Becoming a Good Partner

Marriage is a journey that presents numerous challenges. When one partner is struggling to make ends meet, it can be overwhelming, and it's natural to wonder how to still be a good partner. The Bible encourages us to persevere in our struggles, not to give up, but to work through them together. When you see the problems in each other, do you just want to run away, or do you find a desire to work on them together? If the second impulse is yours, then you have the makings of a marriage that can overcome any obstacle.

In order to be a good partner, it's essential to understand that our desires and pleasures are not best dealt with by continually trying to satisfy them. We must learn to turn to the ultimate lover of our soul, Jesus Christ, to bring about change in our lives. When we do this, we find that we are more than satisfied with our spouse, even in the midst of struggles. It takes time, patience, and commitment, but it is possible to overcome our addiction to seeking external solutions and instead focus on becoming the best possible version of ourselves.

As we navigate the challenges of marriage, it's crucial to remember that our future partner will need a well-exercised patience muscle. We must decide to move at the pace of the people around us, which is what love does. By putting our commitment to our spouse first and redoubling our efforts to declare our commitment, we can overcome the temptation to seek external solutions and instead build a strong, healthy marriage. This is a journey that requires patience, perseverance, and a willingness to work through our struggles together. By doing so, we can become the best possible version of ourselves and build a marriage that is truly fulfilling.