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Your Question:
What's the best way to show love to those around us when we're feeling stuck?
Answer:
When we're feeling stuck, it's easy to lose sight of how to show love to those around us. As someone who's been married for 19 years, I've learned that it's not about relying on natural affection, but about making a conscious effort to express love in various ways. One way to do this is to create situations that make focused attention easier, like planning walks, sitting by the fireplace, or going on scenic drives. Even small gestures like arranging these activities can be a significant expression of love. Another way to show love is to work on our personal appearance as a gift to our loved ones. As a pastor, I've seen how a simple act of kindness or a thoughtful gesture can go a long way in showing love and care. It's also essential to express love verbally, not just by saying it, but by showing it through actions. In my experience, when I've made an effort to love my wife Susan and our children, Joshua and Rebecca, even when I didn't feel like it, my emotions eventually caught up with my behavior. As the Bible reminds us, love is not just about feelings, but about actions. When we commit to act and serve in love, even when it's hard, it can lead to feelings of love and affection. It's not about forcing feelings, but about being intentional about showing love and care. As I reflect on my own marriage and family, I've learned that love is a choice we make every day, even when we don't feel like it. By choosing to love and serve others, we can create a more loving and supportive environment, even in the midst of challenges and difficulties.
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depression
edward welch
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
biblical critical theory
christopher watkin
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
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