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Balancing Our Needs with Helping Others in Times of Crisis

Understanding the Importance of Self-Care

When we help others in times of crisis, it's essential to prioritize our own needs and well-being. As the proverb says, "A wise person seeks advice and listens to advice" (Prov. 19:20). This means we should not try to help others alone, but rather seek support and guidance from others. By doing so, we can ensure that we are not neglecting our own physical, emotional, and spiritual needs. This is crucial because, as we help others, we can quickly realize that we are the ones being helped (Prov. 19:17). We are being set free of our own burdens and weaknesses, and this newfound understanding can usher in a stronger empathy for others in their weaknesses and peculiarities.

Setting Realistic Goals and Expectations

When helping others, it's essential to start slowly and help them set very basic goals initially. This approach allows us to work together to structure their lives and build a sense of hope and accomplishment. Imposing a pace that is beyond their ability can make them feel even more hopeless, so it's crucial to be patient and understanding. By starting slowly and focusing on small, achievable goals, we can help others build confidence and develop a sense of self-worth. This approach also allows us to model a more realistic and sustainable approach to helping others, rather than trying to impose a quick fix or a magic solution.

Prioritizing Ourselves and Others

Ultimately, balancing our own needs with helping others in times of crisis requires us to prioritize both ourselves and others. We need to recognize that our own needs and well-being are essential to our ability to help others effectively. By taking care of ourselves, we can be more empathetic, compassionate, and understanding towards others. At the same time, we need to be willing to put the needs of others before our own, even when it's challenging or uncomfortable. By doing so, we can demonstrate the love and care of Christ, who came to serve and give his life for others (John 15:13). As we balance our own needs with helping others, we can experience the joy and fulfillment that comes from serving others and glorifying God.