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Your Question:
How do I balance my own needs with the needs of my loved ones?
Answer:
As a husband and father, I've learned that balancing my own needs with the needs of my loved ones is a delicate dance. It's easy to get caught up in our own pursuits and forget about the people who matter most. But when I'm not prioritizing my family, I feel the consequences. My wife, Susan, notices when I'm emotionally remote, and it affects our relationship. She feels less loved and less motivated to be involved in our family's life. To avoid this, I make a conscious effort to serve my family. I try to understand their needs and prioritize their well-being. Whether it's helping with household chores, spending quality time with my kids, or simply being present, I strive to show my family that they are a priority. This doesn't mean I neglect my own needs, but rather that I find ways to meet them in a way that also benefits my family. For example, when I'm feeling stressed, I might take a break to play a game with my kids or have a conversation with Susan about what's on her mind. Ultimately, finding balance is a daily choice. It requires effort and intentionality, but it's worth it to see my family thrive. By prioritizing their needs and showing them love and care, I create a ripple effect of love and connection that benefits everyone. As a pastor, I've seen this play out in countless families, and I'm grateful to be living it out in my own home with Susan and our kids, Joshua and Rebecca.
Sources:
old testament theology
waltke
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
sacred marriage
gary thomas
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