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How do I keep my marriage from falling apart?

Answer:

As a pastor and someone who has been married for 19 years, I've seen my fair share of struggles in marriage. But I've learned that prayer is key to keeping a marriage intact. It's essential to pray for protection from any person or situation that could destroy your marriage. Ask God to make your marriage a source of joy and life to both of you, and not a drudgery. Pray that God will break down any barriers that may be driving you apart, and lift you out of the pit of unforgiveness.

It's also crucial to communicate effectively and work through tough times together. Don't give up when things get tough, but instead, approach your spouse in a spirit of servanthood. Use your marriage as an opportunity to grow in the grace of giving, and to learn how to serve another and deny yourself. This motivation can color all aspects of marital life, including household chores, conversation, time, and money. Pray that God might use these areas to root out your selfishness and teach you to become gentle, forgiving, gracious, and kind.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide if you want your marriage to work, and if you're willing to do whatever it takes to see it happen. Believe that what has been eaten away by pain, indifference, and selfishness can be restored. Trust that God can heal the wounds and put love back in your heart. Don't write off the marriage, but instead, ask God to give you a new husband, and to teach you how to walk through the barriers that may be driving you apart. With prayer, perseverance, and a willingness to grow, you can overcome even the toughest challenges in your marriage.

Sources:

power of a praying wife
stormie omartian
sacred marriage
gary thomas
meaning of marriage
timothy keller

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