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Your Question:
Can I really forgive my ex?
Answer:
Forgiveness is a vital aspect of any relationship, including those with our children. As a pastor, I've seen firsthand how unforgiveness can create a wall between individuals and God, hindering our prayers and spiritual growth. When it comes to asking forgiveness, it's essential to acknowledge the hurt or inconvenience caused and take responsibility for our actions. Simply saying "I'm sorry" may not be enough; we need to have a genuine conversation about the specifics of the past wrong and ask the person to forgive us. In my experience as a parent, I've learned that forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting what happened, but rather not holding the person's sin against them. When my children have wronged me, I've found it helpful to talk to them about the specifics of the situation, identify how my words or actions hurt them, and ask for their forgiveness. This approach has helped us restore our relationship and has also shown them that I'm committed to living under the authority of Jesus. Asking forgiveness is not just about the other person; it's also about our own spiritual growth and well-being. When we choose to forgive, we're not only freeing ourselves from the burden of resentment and bitterness, but we're also allowing God to work in our lives and rewrite our story. As the Bible says, "If I, an Old Testament psalmist, can speak with this kind of hope, how much more can you, who have witnessed the cross—the unmistakable evidence of forgiveness of sins?"
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